A Not So Perfect Start by Trudy Ludwig, illustrated by Maribel Lechuga (Knopf Books for Young Readers, 32 pages, ages 4-8). Thea’s starting school with some big feelings: excitement (to meet her teacher), hope (that her teacher and the other kids will like her), and worry (that the teacher will get mad at her). The first few days have ups and downs, but halfway through the third day, Thea really gets stuck. She can’t get her picture to look the way she wants it to, and it makes her feel mad and like she’s no good at art. Mrs. Howard tells her that art doesn’t have to be perfect to be beautiful. When a classmate spills paint on the floor, Thea helps clean up, then notices how beautiful the paint-soaked paper towels look. The class gets inspired to make a bouquet of paper towel flowers for Mrs. Howard. Includes a list of helpful tips for “perfectly imperfect YOU!”
I loved the progress-not-perfection message of this book, which could be helpful for kids AND teachers starting a new school year. The only complaint I had is that every school I’ve ever worked at has had those brown non-absorbent paper towels, which could never in a million years soak up paint, much less be made into a bouquet of flowers.
Allie and the 100 Percent Perfect, Frustration-Free Day! by Megan Wagner Lloyd, illustrated by Ellie Snowdon (Peachtree, 32 pages, ages 4-8). Allie the alpaca wakes up each morning determined to have a 100 percent perfect day. She WILL learn to tie her shoes, create an amazing painting, and bake incredible cookies. When inevitable problems arise, Allie feels angry and frustrated, even more so when her little brother laughs at her and her mom tells her to have a positive attitude. To make sure tomorrow is perfect, Allie lays out her clothes and fixes her lunch the night before. But a nightmare right before she wakes up derails her, and the morning gets off to another imperfect start. But just as the frustration is building, Allie remembers advice others have given her, like “Get help when you need it,” and “Try taking a break.” At that moment, Allie’s brother trips and falls, and the two of them start laughing together. Allie realizes she may not ever have a frustration-free day, but the day can be pretty perfect anyway.
Another perfectionist learns to relax in this cute story filled with alpaca illustrations. Both of these stories offer practical messages for kids to give themselves when things go wrong and would make a fun addition to any SEL curriculum.
Dear Math, We’re Not Friends by Lina Chopra Haldar, illustrated by Teresa Martinez (Beaming Books, 32 pages, grades K-3). When Nikhil’s teacher assigns the class to write letters to Math, Nikhil informs Math that they are not friends and never will be. His letters reveal that Math gives him anxiety about messing up and not being able to find the right answer. As the year goes by, however, he starts to realize that mistakes are okay, just part of learning. He also starts to see Math in his everyday life, like measurement and money, and that it also plays an important role in some of his favorite subjects, like space exploration, art, and cooking. “I seem to find you everywhere now,” he writes in his last letter, signing it “Your friend, Nikhil.”
This book of letters not only tells the story of a boy discovering the beauty and importance of math but also overcoming his fear of making mistakes. It would make a good introduction to math at the beginning of the year, helping to establish a growth mindset of learning vs. trying to always make sure you have the right answer.





















