Middle school angst

Upstaged by Robin Easter (Little Brown Ink, 256 pages, grades 4-8). Ash has had a crush on their best friend Ivy for quite a while now, and they’re excited about having one last summer with her at theater camp before going off to high school. Ash is stage manager, and Ivy has the lead of the musical Ella, based on the story of Cinderella. But things don’t turn out according to Ash’s plans, and as the summer progresses, it seems as though Ivy is always with her co-star Luke. Despite a surprising crush that another girl has on them, Ash is only interested in Ivy, and eventually lets their middle school emotions get the best of them, resulting in an angry outburst at Ivy and Luke. Fortunately, Ivy is able to cool things down, and there’s a fairy-tale style happy ending in store for everyone–and a successful show to wrap things up.

Not If You Break Up with Me First by G. F. Miller (Aladdin, 288 pages, grades 6-8). Andrew and Eve have been best friends for most of their lives, but things start to change in eighth grade. Eve gets pressured by her friends into asking Andrew to a dance, and the next thing either one of them knows, the whole school considers them a couple. Both Andrew and Eve (who alternate narrating the chapters) hate the expectations that seem to come with dating and want to get back to the comfort of their old friendship. They each have their own reasons for not wanting to be the one to initiate the break, though, so they each decide to do what they can to make the other one break up. Having been friends for so long, they are experts at pushing each other’s buttons, and things escalate until the whole school gets involved, and the two of them are facing detention. Fortunately, the truth comes out at both their homes, and Andrew’s mom coaches him on “the grand gesture” that results in (finally) an honest conversation between Eve and Andrew. Both acknowledge having feelings for each other, but also wanting to keep their old friendship, and a mutual break-up seems like the best solution for the time being.

Any Way You Look by Maleeha Siddiqui (Scholastic, 256 pages, grades 4-7). Ainy is excited about the end of sixth grade and the beginning of summer, looking forward to adventures with her best friend Safiya and helping her mother, Amma, and older sister, Bajja, at Amma’s clothing boutique. Ainy dreams of designing modest fashions for a living, so she’s thrilled when Amma entrusts her with an important design job. Unwanted attention from a boy from her class threatens to ruin her summer, though, and Ainy doesn’t know who to turn to for help. Amma is swamped with work, Bajja has unexpectedly stopped being a hijabi, and their dad is back in Pakistan, taking care of his mother who has cancer. Ainy decides to start wearing hijab in the hope that it will make the boy lose interest in her, but it ends up precipitating a crisis in which the truth finally comes out. Once Amma, Bajja, and Safiya learn what’s been happening, they help Ainy find the strength to speak up and set boundaries, and they teach her the true meaning of hijab and help her to decide whether or not she’s ready for it.

I got a triple dose of middle school angst with these three books. Each featured a main character with a big problem and an unwillingness to talk to anyone about it, resulting in lots of drama and a near-crisis that finally led to getting things out in the open. Upstaged is a graphic novel perfect for fans of Raina Telgemeier’s Drama; Not if You Break Up With Me First almost drove me mad, but resulted in the sweetest ending that middle schoolers in search of realistic romance will love; and Any Way You Look is a heartfelt and engaging story that looks at sexual harassment, setting boundaries, and learning to advocate for yourself, all from the perspective of a Muslim girl considering wearing hijab. Each book could have been a very short story if the main character had just had a conversation already, but hey, that’s middle school for you.

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